WHEN TO CALL IT QUITS?
So oftentimes, we find feeling tired of ourselves and start questioning everything that we did; we do, and we think… that’s the perfect time to look at your surroundings.
Treat your life as if it belongs to you:
Ask if the people in your life adding value or decreasing value to your life?
Life is meant to be a celebration. Meant to feel at your best all the time and gotta keep you excited for your future.
Yes, I know, sometimes it’s just you and your thoughts, but my question is, Why you create such thoughts you wouldn’t like, despite you having people around you who inspire you, motivate you, and appreciate you?
Adding quality does matter:
Simple, I explain that people in your life have to add value, and what I mean by value is everything you do with your thoughts and actions in private! Why private? Because that’s where your originality is. You are who you are when no one is watching you.
Answer these questions below before Quitting:
-Are your thoughts and actions give you peace?
-Are you able to focus on what’s good for you?
-Are you at your best?
-Are you focusing on self-improvement?
-Are you who you are with friends, or do you wear a mask(double-faced) when you around them?
-How easy and free do you feel around them?
-Are you self sufficient or complaining?
-Are you able to follow your routine and stay committed?
Out of 8 points, consider not being convinced with 2 points (depends on choices you make in life). I want you to cut people off those who don’t make you feel valuable and add quality to your life.
Quick tip: Who are those who comes to your mind when you see or read the word ‘Quit’?
How to take action when you Quit?
Start it by removing them from your contact list, stop following people from social media who don’t give you good vibes, eliminate those friends who don’t motivate you, or wouldn’t be available when you truly need them. Only if you know the power of letting go (people who truly seek you would come back, know that!) You wouldn’t hesitate to take a step.
Why is it crucial for you to Quit on such people?
In life, most of the time I was going through rough seasons and most of the people in my life knew what I have been through, but never really offered any kind of motivation or help to deal with it.
And when I look back now, it was none who played any part during my difficult phase, but they all still wouldn’t mind taking advantage of my good times.
When I am happy, I used to give random gifts, unnecessary motivation (they never really needed), used to create happy moments, planned surprises, and entertained.
Realization is truly a meditation:
Now imagine, if I invested all of that energy, time, and money on those people who would always be there for me by my side during different phases of my life, how much I would have enhanced with my qualities.
Friends would have respected me for who I am, they would know my worth, they would treat me the way I treat them, a few more would have suggested me to save my money instead and ways to invest to benefit me financially or in many other profitable ways.
That’s the people we all deserve, and we should look for it. If you know your value, you wouldn’t discount yourself. I want you to make choices in your life that would build and represent you to level up.
Make life worth living and for most of us, we sometimes feel insufficient being self-sufficient. So, add to life by choosing people who let you live life to the fullest and not feeling discounted!
Cheers to life!
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