Dislike should be displayed without feeling discounted!
I Wish I Started This post With the Word ‘NO’ but I don’t know why I didn’t. I should’ve. I will. I must now…
No, Not everyone gonna like you, so that means, people disliking you is a crazy possibility and utter natural.
If someone likes you, now that is a surprise and you gotta celebrate till they do so…because they gonna dislike you someday some way. I know it sounds not so motivating, boring, and less exciting talking some blunt stuff like this…
Did you know there is a way people gonna like you? Yea, only if you like something they like, and dislike what they dislike! Basically, be a mirror-like as if you don’t have your own face (HA-HA Yes).
The only and only possible way for everyone to like you is either you are a replica of them, or you must be some Nutella thick shake topping with chocolate. Oh please! Ask me about it, I need to lose weight, I don’t even like chocolate in the first place so, hell yeah, I too have a reason to not like this Nutella whatever shake it is…
Few people will undoubtedly hate you no matter what. Look, right now I too hate you in advance if you don’t like this post. And some of you must not have liked the way this post started 😉 your opinion is your control, not mine…
Having said so much, this interests me to share something that happened very recently… I was at a Cafe, ordered my favorite Mac and cheese with some garlic bread (sounds yummy isn’t it).
As I wait for my order, meanwhile, I picked up a book from a concern desk and I noticed it was the same book which I couldn’t get into (literally hated) and kept aside a few months back. I thought let me give it a try now.
As I start to read, I realized how reasonably and evidently the author explains everything so well. Especially there is this chapter on ‘ why we should avoid consuming non-vegetarian food’ and I was so surprised why I couldn’t get into those lines before and why I didn’t appreciate the standpoint of the author before?
Later on, I realized that I am a new person who now understands the language of a mature mindset and I am in a space where I allow everything to simply make sense instead of being judgemental. Now I was totally able to connect and understand what the book talks about because I now practically learned what an amazing difference I have experienced after I turned myself from a hardcore non-vegetarian to someone who prefers veggies (yes, the pasta was with broccoli) and mostly greens.
(By the way, I really enjoyed my Pasta, Garlic bread and also Cold coffee that I ordered later on).
So, how this story can be related to the subject line? Well, all that I want to share here is that we like and dislike depending on what we are right now. Maybe there might be someone whom you used to like back in school days because she/he scored well could be someone who unkind and disrespects people.
And in the same way, the one whom you used to dislike back in school days because she/he was rude, loud, and also used to score low grades might be is serving the Indian Army today.
If you have to meet both of them now… think, think, think… now you understand what I mean? This is why, who likes you today or dislikes you today have nothing to do with you. It is their business and their controls are operated by them. You too have your controls, choose what to take seriously and what to ignore wisely.
Today people who like you, like you for a reason that convinces their most highly valued quality, and by time, as they change, the quality of their life changes too.
Take a chill pill, and groom urself like ‘no fucks given’ face! Just be who you are.
Check out this link below for ‘Reasons to be Okay with Being Disliked‘ by Tiny Buddha
10 Reasons to be Okay with Being Disliked
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Wow, Madhavi this is really true.. I was doing this same mistake again and again thinking about other where I started to forget about me…Recently I came to knew what I was missing throughout the process of understanding others and how they feel.
Good job 👍🏽 & Good Luck.
Thank You Kevin! Keep coming back for more:) Cheers!